Do you have the right RITUALS?
Don't let anyone chip away at you... specially those who supposedly "love" you. If you allow them, they will not leave anything in you... and that's when they will leave you, sore, empty and lost... Love is supposed to lift you up, encourage you, motivate you and bring out the best in you, not tear you down to pieces. Those who know what love really is like can't be anything but genuine, be wise enough to recognize the true faces of people. Love doesn't hurt, wrong people do. Sometimes life needs a thorough cleaning... make that a ritual, when needed. Gather your strength, cut your loss and get rid of toxic people. You owe it to yourself.
Real love, you feel it, you see it, you show it! Fake love is just words...
Sometimes people pretend they love another because they just don't want to be alone... Maybe because that person is good for their ego. Or maybe because they make them feel better about their miserable life, but they don't really love them. The equation is simple, you don't destroy people you love. The best way to deal with fake people is to be real with them.
Real love is always open and honest, even when upset.
Fake love plays games, hides their feelings and tries to manipulate the emotions of others to gain the upper hand.
Real love is self-sacrificing. Fake love only wants what it wants.
True love gives from the heart. Fake love gives because it wants something in return.
True love forgives. Fake love seeks vengeance.
True love appreciates you for who you are. Fake love tries to change you into their perfect ideal.
True love tries to resolve conflict. Fake love tries to prove it is right.
True love lets go of hurts. Fake love harbours resentment.
True love gives you the freedom. Fake love is controlling.
True love listens. Fake love only talks.
So... are you loving the right person? Or are you stuck in the web of a black widow? Be it male or female...
It's always hard to think objectively when we are in a toxic relationship, we always give chances, forgive, give excuses to convince ourselves that we are investing our time and feelings in a good person... maybe they had a bad day, maybe they are scared of something, maybe they have trouble at home... etc etc etc... it's always hard for us to admit they are evil people, our excuses and kindness keeps enabling them, we are feeding them until we have completely lost ourselves in the process.
So, if you have the slightest doubt about the "relationship" you are in... take some time for yourself, re-evaluate the situation, is this ever going to work out? How much are you willing to sacrifice for this other person? Are they really worth it? Ask yourselves these questions... does this person have the potential to bring out the best in you? To raise you up? Do you have respect for them? Do you think you will keep having respect for them in a few months... years...?
Just be wise, use your brain when your heart fails to take decisions. No matter how hard it may be.
Clean your life from toxic people, just like you have spring cleaning for your home, do the same for your life.
Real love, you feel it, you see it, you show it! Fake love is just words...
Sometimes people pretend they love another because they just don't want to be alone... Maybe because that person is good for their ego. Or maybe because they make them feel better about their miserable life, but they don't really love them. The equation is simple, you don't destroy people you love. The best way to deal with fake people is to be real with them.
Real love is always open and honest, even when upset.
Fake love plays games, hides their feelings and tries to manipulate the emotions of others to gain the upper hand.
Real love is self-sacrificing. Fake love only wants what it wants.
True love gives from the heart. Fake love gives because it wants something in return.
True love forgives. Fake love seeks vengeance.
True love appreciates you for who you are. Fake love tries to change you into their perfect ideal.
True love tries to resolve conflict. Fake love tries to prove it is right.
True love lets go of hurts. Fake love harbours resentment.
True love gives you the freedom. Fake love is controlling.
True love listens. Fake love only talks.
So... are you loving the right person? Or are you stuck in the web of a black widow? Be it male or female...
It's always hard to think objectively when we are in a toxic relationship, we always give chances, forgive, give excuses to convince ourselves that we are investing our time and feelings in a good person... maybe they had a bad day, maybe they are scared of something, maybe they have trouble at home... etc etc etc... it's always hard for us to admit they are evil people, our excuses and kindness keeps enabling them, we are feeding them until we have completely lost ourselves in the process.
So, if you have the slightest doubt about the "relationship" you are in... take some time for yourself, re-evaluate the situation, is this ever going to work out? How much are you willing to sacrifice for this other person? Are they really worth it? Ask yourselves these questions... does this person have the potential to bring out the best in you? To raise you up? Do you have respect for them? Do you think you will keep having respect for them in a few months... years...?
Just be wise, use your brain when your heart fails to take decisions. No matter how hard it may be.
Clean your life from toxic people, just like you have spring cleaning for your home, do the same for your life.
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