Beauty and the Beast!
Sometimes people get close to you due to envy of the energy you project, they pretend to love you to get to know you closely and copy you... and when they realize they can never be you, before they leave, they try to destroy you... so you are no good for anyone else... Those are the people we need to be careful of. Not all smiles are real... some are a display of "fangs". Angelic looks may hide an evil core... Sometimes beauty is a weapon and those who know how to use it can be great manipulators.
Beauty and the beast are in this case one and the same.
Emotional manipulation, lying, machiavellism, the use of charm, emotional starvation, negativity, accusation, playing victim, tears, apologies, spying, plotting, teaming up with other "martyrs", destroying reputations, pretending to be sweet and innocent... are all tools we need to understand and identify as the weapons of a well trained narcissistic psychopath.
When you encounter such a character, cut your losses and get out. Do not think of them in a humane way, that is what they count on you to do, they know your weakness, they know you will keep giving them chances, this is why they come back into your life stronger each time, sucking the energy and life out of you.
Cut them out of your life and keep walking. Don't look back. But be aware of the possibility of them backstabbing you... so cover your back, how do you do that? Surround yourself with genuine people. Those who truly love you and care about you. Those whom you have been probably ignoring or pushing to the side while swooning at the emotional vampires draining you... with your consent.
Wake up, wake up before it's too late.
Those who love you may be patient, but every person has limits. Don't push your luck.
Just saying.
Beauty and the beast are in this case one and the same.
Emotional manipulation, lying, machiavellism, the use of charm, emotional starvation, negativity, accusation, playing victim, tears, apologies, spying, plotting, teaming up with other "martyrs", destroying reputations, pretending to be sweet and innocent... are all tools we need to understand and identify as the weapons of a well trained narcissistic psychopath.
When you encounter such a character, cut your losses and get out. Do not think of them in a humane way, that is what they count on you to do, they know your weakness, they know you will keep giving them chances, this is why they come back into your life stronger each time, sucking the energy and life out of you.
Cut them out of your life and keep walking. Don't look back. But be aware of the possibility of them backstabbing you... so cover your back, how do you do that? Surround yourself with genuine people. Those who truly love you and care about you. Those whom you have been probably ignoring or pushing to the side while swooning at the emotional vampires draining you... with your consent.
Wake up, wake up before it's too late.
Those who love you may be patient, but every person has limits. Don't push your luck.
Just saying.
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