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BLIND LOVE?

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The heart does not emphasize on color, race, gender, wealth, social status, bodyshape or any other shallow aspect when it loves. Love IS blind to all that societal mumbo jumbo... it's the mind that's the problem... You love your child even if he/she is ill, deformed, or even not up to the "standards of beauty". A child is a small human being now... you love it because it's innocent and harmless, he/she has no shame nor hand in the situation. That same child will become an adult, and will be loved by someone who remembers that this person was once a child, and love them the same way. Every person is someone's child... we have no say in what genes we carry... let's just understand this once and for all... no race is better than another. It's what you make of yourself that matters. How you build yourself, personality, knowledge and life. In a couple of hundred years there will be no more races... we will be so mixed that no person will b

New relationship after a breakup?

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We all have been through a breakup or two (or twenty) that have left us broken, devastated, miserable, sitting in a dark room in our home clothes for days… eating junk food and ice cream for comfort and crying ourselves to sleep. Well, at least those of us who dare to admit it. After a hard break up, especially after a serious, deep connection with someone over a long (or long enough) period of time… it gets harder to stand up again, mostly if the breakup was not peaceful or one sided… It gets even worse if there was cheating involved. The broken up with might suffer more damage than they realize… as this can affect one’s self esteem, trust in others… and in extreme cases, willingness to try anew with someone else. When is the right time to move on? How can one move on if there were deep feelings involved in the previous relationship, or even when trust is broken? Some people find solace in just jumping into a new relationship… the first person to smile back at them… they jum

Burn

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In my short days I have encountered Humans of many sorts... The kind, the evil The smart, the weasel The nonchalant, the galant The simple, the twisted... The paranoid, the self righteous The narcissist, the sadist The victim, the drama queen... I thought I had covered All that's in between... Until... I met you! You... showed warmth So intense... it melted me! You... showed support So strong... it lifted me! You... offered a dream Too good to be real You... let me regain My faith in humanity. Little did I know... All you wanted was To melt me, To lift me up so high... Just to drop me hard To break me... Alas, my friend... Little did you know... I get stronger when on fire! Nothing breaks someone Who's already lost it all... Nothing shakes someone Who's not afraid to fall... And I, my friend... Am not built for failure... I give thanks to you For a lesson learned... While I admire your Self loathing... Your anger...